The Woes Of Being Fat
Sorry but I think this is going to be a whiny post. I guess I have to do that once in a while.
I have not been walking much lately, since it has gotten so cold here in Wisconsin. The path by the river is full of snow, and they don’t plow it. My dog does not like walking in deep snow.
Besides, I have been stressed out and eating lots of chocolates and other junk.
I have put on weight again. Last time I weighed myself, I was at 205 - and I started at 207. I had gotten down to 200, so what happened?? Aaarghhh!
I feel so fat too. It is actually getting hard to move around. I don’t remember ever feeling like this before. I guess it will be just more of the same if I don’t get on the stick here.
I did do one good thing - I stopped by the Y on the way home and got their pool schedule. I love to swim, and I haven’t been to the Y in over a year. I think I will just try to start swimming a couple of times a week. It is better than nothing. Better to start slow.
I feel kind of guilty for leaving my dog alone in the evening to go swimming, when I am gone all day at work. But this is serious — I really need to do something. She will just have to survive without me.
So enough whining — I am going to do something about my weight. Besides the swimming, I will try to eat healthier too.
Tags: Fat, Stress, Weight Gain


















January 26th, 2007 at 2:48 am
Hey Lucy,
Getting in shape is more of an internal process than it is an external one.
When we get the internal stuff right… the external change is merely a (positive) by-product.
If you’re serious about losing weight, focus on what you’re gaining, not what you’re missing out on.
Many people who change their eating habits sabotage themselves by constantly focusing on ‘how deprived’ they are and all the ‘good stuff’ they’re missing out on. That piece of chocolate or slice of cake might give you a few minutes of pleasure but it doesn’t change the fact that you live in a fatter-than-desirable body 24/7.
I have training people that have lost over 100 pounds just by getting their head in the right place.
Your dog will love you when you’re 50 pounds lighter, and full of energy.
If you need some help, please feel free to drop me a line.
Craig Harper (Melbourne, Australia)
craig@craigharper.com.au
January 26th, 2007 at 9:06 am
Hi Craig, I think what you said about losing weight being more an internal process than an external one is very wise. Also your tip of focusing on what you are gaining is great. I always believe it is better to focus on the positive. Thanks for your comment!
January 27th, 2007 at 11:40 am
Lucy, when you can’t walk outside, walk inside. Turn on your favorite movie and walk in place during it. Get a pedometer and make goals for yourself. Start low - 5000 steps a day. Work up to 10,000 or more.
Play with your dog in the house, work up a sweat doing that (it’s easy enough to do).
Focus on what is important: you. Craig is right. When your head is there, everything else will follow.
As a stress eater, I understand how difficult it can be. But I also know that I’m the person who has to take care of me so I keep going. Every day I wake up and give myself the gift of getting healthy.
You can do it, too.
January 28th, 2007 at 8:04 pm
Dawn, thanks, I know you are right. Thanks so much for all the encouragement.
February 26th, 2007 at 4:11 pm
Lucy you are doing awesome! You will have setbacks from time to time (I have had a few and don’t worry, as you lose weight, you WILL be able to keep it off..but sometimes you have to go up a little bit to get a “scare” and hunker down for more progress.) Don’t forget about dancing to music! With cable providing tons of music channels, even in bad weather, you can get a workout, plus it’s a mood booster. Keep up the great work.